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The basics of choosing a wig

 If you've already decided that you're sold on alternative hair, follow the steps below to get started finding your dream hair

Step 1: Determine your budget

There are lots of great options no matter your budget, but this will help determine where to start

$0-20

If you're on the tightest budget and you have no money to spare, look for places that donate wigs, such as the Facebook group "Blessed With Hair to Share." Wigs by Tiffany donates a wig each month to a kid in need, and you can go to her website to fill out an application. You'll still need to buy the care products yourself, but this can be as easy as buying Dawn dishwashing soap and liquid fabric softener (for synthetic pieces) at your local store.

$20-$50

Some people rave about inexpensive Amazon wigs and you can get recommendations for these on Facebook wig groups. You can also find some new wigs in this price range at local wig shops, or used wigs sold on resale Facebook groups

$50-$200

There are great quality inexpensive pieces available to buy new from Heather Hershey's two wig lines at Cysterwigs.com and Hairkittykitty.com. You can also opt to buy a used wig from a resale Facebook group.

$200-$500

In this budget range, you can score high-quality synthetic pieces from online shops with a ton of selection. Popular brands include Jon Renau, Raquel Welch, Noriko, and Rene of Paris, just to name a few.

$500-$1,000

This price range probably has the most variety of options! If you're looking for long lock, consider a used human hair piece. If you're interested in short options, you're in luck - these pieces tend to be less expensive because they require less material, so you'll be able to find plenty of great synthetic pieces at this price or lower. Consider buying 2 so that you have multiple options or a backup to your favorite. Medium length can go either way: high-quality new synthetic pieces or used human hair pieces.

$1,000-$2,000

In this price range, most people opt for human hair because it typically has a longer lifespan and more versatility in styling. Make sure you also consider the cost of buying salon-grade products to maintain the color and softness.

$2,000+

If you are fortunate enough to have a budget like this, it will open the doors for a luxury unit or custom wig. If you opt for a custom, you should be able to talk to the person making the wig to get the specific sizing and colors you're looking for. I would not recommend spending any more that $2,500 on a single piece (but people will try to sell them for more) unless you're looking for a really hard-to-find piece. There are so many great options available at prices below this that you're better off to save the extra money and buy a second wig or spend it on something else! 

Step 2: Determine your measurements

Wigs.com (and many other sources) offer an easy to understand guide to getting your measurements

https://www.wigs.com/pages/how-to-find-your-wig-size 


The circumference will be the most important measurement, but the other are important, too. Keep in mind that the sizing will vary from brand to brand, meaning a 21" circumference may be a small or petite in one brand and a medium in another.  Each brand or seller should have a size chart to let you know how their sizes run. Synthetic wigs are sized petite, regular, and large, and while all wigs are available in regular, only a selection are made in petite or large. Human hiar wigs are usually sized small, medium, or large, but some sellers offer XS or XL or in-between sizes like S/M. 

Wigs are like clothes -

Again, sizing varies from brand to brand. You may be between 2 sizes, be able to wear more than 1 size. You may prefer a more snug fit for the added security or you may prefer a roomier fit if you have some bio hair or if the wig gives you a headache. 

If you're a petite:

Look for a synthetic style that comes in a petite cap, or a small or XS (depending on your circumference) for a human hair wig. If you don't get the right size you wig may be too loose and slide back.

If you're a medium:

Lucky you! If you have average measurements most synthetic wigs will fit you well, you won't have to pass over  style you love because it's not made in your size, and you'll likely have the biggest selection of human hair pieces. 

If you're a large:

Look for a synthetic or human hair wig that wig that comes in a large cap, or XL if needed. 

Size matters!

Do not skip this important step! If your wig doesn't fit properly, it will cause unnecessary frustration. Better to wait to find something that really fits than settle for something that almost fits. 

Step 3: Decide on hair type

Human hair

  • Costs more up front, but lasts longer (a year or more)
  • Looks, feels, and moves like human hair (because it is!)
  • Comes in any color that human hair can be dyed, but unique colors will be harder to find or in shorter supply
  • Needs to be washed with salon-grade products and have salon-grade oil added between washes to prevent from drying out
  • Can be styled with a curling iron or other hair tools (max 350 deg from most)
  • Comes in lace top or silk top
  • Make sure you get Remy hair (cuticles going in the same direction)
  • Getting the correct size is really important for a good fit
  • Look for average/natural density - 120% to 130%
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Synthetic hair

  • Lower price tag for a single unit
  • Comes in a variety of colors, including colors that can't be found in human hair
  • Needs to be washed with products made for synthetic hair, or some people use Dawn dish soap as a shampoo and/or liquid fabric softener as a conditioner
  • Maintains its style after getting caught in the rain or after a wash
  • Most can not be styled with a curling iron and will be damaged if exposed to extreme temps (like when opening the door to a hot oven)
  • Getting the correct size is less important as synthetic caps tend to be more stretchy, and petite or large caps are not always offered
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Still want to know more?

Click here for a more detailed explanation of the pros and cons of synthetic vs human hair

Step 4: Choose color and length

For newbies

I recommend starting with something a color and length as close to your bio hair color as you can find. Trying to stray too far too early usually leads to frustration and feeling awkward. Once you get more comfortable wearing wigs, you can experiment to your heart's content!

Pay attention to the roots

Make sure the roots of the wig match your eyebrow color if you want it to look natural. And keep in mind that many lower-cost synthetic wigs have dark roots (or permatease) to help disguise the cap underneath the hair. (This may or may not work in your favor.)

Learn the difference between warm and cool tones

Skin tones may be cool, neutral, or warm and hair colors can be described as the same. Neutral skin tones will have the most flexibility in hair tones, and as a rule of thumb cool skin tones will look best in cool hair colors and warm skin tones will look best in warm hair colors. Many color descriptions (especially in human hair) will detail the tone in the description.

Shorter styles

  • costs less
  • easier to maintain, tangles less

Longer styles

  • costs more
  • more difficult to maintain; human hair will needed to be brushed more often and synthetic styles will wear out more quickly

Lighter shades

  • have typically been highly processed
  • May tangle or become dry/brittle more easily compared to darker hair- use smoothing oil as needed

Step 5: Check the cap features

Make sure you’re ok with the cap features - check for:

  • Ear tabs vs no ear tabs
  • Hair attachment: Hand-tied vs wefted
  • Top: silk, lace, monofilament, or basic cap
  • Comfort features such as felt or silicone

Once you know the basics of choosing a wig, you’re ready to start shopping! Check out the Where to Buy page for more help on where to buy. Go to What Else for a list of other supplies you’ll need to maintain your new hair. 

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